I was trawling the internet and I came across this article on the Daily Mail website, written by Shona Sibary, a mother who talks about her two daughters and how she perceives this generation of teenage girls to be clones of each other and their celebrity idols.
The article can be found here.
For those of you that couldn't be bothered to read it, I'll sum it up quickly here:
Basically this lady has written an article about how she feels her teenage daughters have lost their individuality and become clones of each other and "every other teenager within a five-mile radius." The author blames the fact that her children are bombarded with the "same homogeneous images", perpetuated by the media.
This article has made me so angry. I am really frustrated that not only has this lady stereotyped her own daughters, but the rest of the UK female population between the ages of 13 and 18. I am astounded that she solely blames the media and the celebrities' mentalities that it publishes, on the fact that her daughters have become "vain" and "vapid" about their appearances. Surely if she didn't like this kind of behaviour, then she wouldn't endorse it?
"I can't help thinking my daughters' behaviour reflects something far more disturbing about teenage girls - that they have become a generation of vapid clones for whom a preoccupation with looks and appearance takes precedence over everything else."
The author has then proceeded to stereotype every teenage girl.
Hey guys, we're all vapid clones now! Quick! Put your books down, your make-up is out of place! No time for reading or studying, your hair needs to be straightened!
No.
Actually, we're not all like that. How dare you assume that just because your daughters may care a little too much about their appearances, that every teenage girl out there does.
We are not all clones and we are not all vapid, vain, or superficial. We are individuals.
"everything they want to wear is so tight, so revealing, dare I say it, slutty."Instead of dealing with her despair at the way her daughters dress and act, the author not only endorses it, but includes photographs of her teenage daughters wearing tight, revealing shorts and skirts on a National website! I really don't understand why she thinks that she must pay for her daughters' revealing wardrobes and show them to the entire Nation.
The fault is not solely with the media in my opinion, parents do have a responsibility to their children to guide them through their lives, this includes disciplining behaviours that they don't find to be acceptable, not endorsing or encouraging them.
Sorry guys, I know it's been a bit 'ranty' but I really wanted to get my opinion out there about it. There's nothing I hate more than people stereotyping entire populations of people, especially when those stereotypes are so judgemental and assumptive.